Big Changes, Bigger Patience

Navigating through grief is no small task.

Just when you think you’ve found some relief, another wave of intense sorrow can crash over you.

Take heart, my friend.

This too shall pass… but perhaps not today.

We live in a fast-paced society that conditions us to seek instant gratification, making it easy to wish away our burdens, trying to get the monkey off our back.

Yet, when grappling with grief, it’s vital to honor that human part of yourself that often feels disconnected from Love.

Transforming your resistance to grief into acceptance requires immense patience and compassion.

You may not fully realize just how much grief is woven into the fabric of your being, stored in the very DNA of your cells.

It takes time to unravel this latent energy that has become constricted and blocked.

As you begin to allow grief to flow and to accept what you are feeling, you will slowly start to expand and open all the parts of yourself that have felt tight and restricted.

Consider this: a sunflower seed and the seed of a yew tree may be nearly the same size…

But while the sunflower seed germinates in just 7 to 10 days and lives for a mere 70 to 100 days, the yew tree requires 2 months to 2 years to germinate and can live for up to 900 years!

This serves as a reminder that the magnitude of the change dictates the patience required.

If you have experienced the loss of a child or someone close to you, you are navigating a profoundly traumatic event.

And that doesn’t even begin to account for any trauma that may have occurred during their lifetime.

This is significant work.

I invite you to…

Be strong.

Be courageous.

Be compassionate.

Be patient.

One day—not today, but one day—you will look back on your journey and be in awe of the beautiful life you’ve created.

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Compassionate Embrace: Navigating the Journey of Grief

“Do not surrender your grief so quickly. Let it cut more deeply. Let it ferment and season you as few human or divine ingredients can.” — Hafiz

In the depths of grief, it often feels as though the pain will never subside.

Take a moment.

Relax.

Breathe.

Allow the waves of grief to flow through you without resistance.

Remember, it is not grief itself that brings suffering…

It is your RESISTANCE to grief that creates your misery.

What if you could view your grief as a small child yearning for love, understanding and acceptance, just as they are?

Imagine approaching your grief with compassion, as if it were a small child, gently picking up that little one, and saying, “Come here, and tell me all about it.”

This shift in perspective can be transformative, guiding you from a cycle of suffering to a place of freedom.

Don’t be afraid of your grief, for it is merely your Joy and Love in shadow form, waiting to be transformed through acceptance and Love.

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More On Connecting with Your Departed Loved One

When grief strikes, it can be profoundly overwhelming.

The pent-up emotions and thoughts, along with the resistance to them, can leave you feeling stuck.

You may find yourself caught in a loop, reliving the trauma over and over again.

This cycling is a natural part of the grieving process.

As you navigate the depths of your sorrow, your vibrational energy tends to be very low.

Meanwhile, your departed loved one resides at a much higher frequency.

Despite their continuous efforts to reach out and show you support, connecting becomes challenging when you're in the depths of your grief.

To bridge this gap, you need to raise your vibrational frequency.

They can then lower theirs to facilitate the connection.

The way to elevate your frequency is through self-healing.

While it's essential to grieve, it's also important to set aside periods where you can be calm, open, and receptive.

Your loved one is consistently sending you signs, often through nature—animals, insects, and birds work as messengers of love.

Additionally, they communicate through numbers.

Pay attention to significant dates like your loved one’s birthday, the day they passed, their age, or birth year.

When these numbers appear in your life, they are a gentle reminder that your loved one is nearby.

Make it a habit to observe license plates, signs, and clocks with this perspective.

Your loved one also loves to communicate through music.

Listen closely to the lyrics, as they may be singing to you in these moments.

Take the time to pause during mornings, evenings, or even throughout your day to have a little chat with your loved one.

Ground yourself in stillness and presence to feel their energy near you.

Many of the messages you receive may come in a telepathic form, leading you to doubt whether these thoughts originated in your mind.

This skepticism can hinder your ability to connect.

Shift your mindset away from the belief that communication with your loved one is impossible; instead, embrace the understanding that it is a natural and beautiful occurrence.

After all, we are all spirits.

Wouldn’t you prefer to believe in the best instead of the worst?

You have the power to cherish your connection with your loved one.

It begins with your intention, awareness, and willingness to embrace a new way of being.

I would love to hear from you about the ways your loved one is communicating with you.

Feel free to share your experiences here.

Above all, be patient with yourself in this process.

It may seem daunting at times, but know that you will heal.

You will find joy in life once again and always feel the presence of your loved one because they are always with you.

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You are not alone on this journey. Together, we can find comfort in shared experiences and foster a nurturing environment for healing.

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Connecting With a Departed Loved One

I have been blessed with the profound experience of establishing an open line of communication with my son, Cory, on the other side, along with other guides, angels, and ascended masters.

Although my connection with Cory began just days after his passing, fully receiving that communication was not an easy journey for me at first.

For 50 years, I was a devout Christian, and in that framework, speaking to those who have departed is generally frowned upon.

Yet, the experiences I had were so vivid and supernatural that I could no longer deny Cory's presence and communication.

After several weeks of grappling with my mind’s limiting beliefs, I made a pivotal decision…

This was MY experience, and I was determined not to let the judgments, opinions, or religious beliefs of others prevent me from embracing the support and connection that was undeniably available to me.

At the time, I feared that others might think I was losing my mind or even dismiss me as delusional.

While I faced a fair amount of gaslighting, I stood firm in my truth and what felt right for me.

It required strength and a willingness to defy the prevailing beliefs of society.

I had to be prepared to walk my own path, despite feeling isolated, even though I was never truly alone.

By choosing to fully embrace the support from the Spirit realm, I expanded my capacity for healing, guided by Cory as my primary Spirit Guide, along with all the magnificent beings who stood by me throughout this human journey.

My journey has been nothing short of miraculous, and I am deeply passionate about sharing the insights I've gained regarding the healing process and how to connect with the support of our departed loved ones on the other side.

I AM here to support and serve in the way I would have wanted to be helped ten years ago. ❤️

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