Nobody Did Me Wrong

Nobody forced me to be in relationships with them.

I chose each and every experience in my life.

My soul knew how to create situations to get me in touch with all the beautiful parts of myself that want to be loved here now.

I AM learning how to take responsibility for myself, and to make decisions that are in my best interest.

So long as I blame and expect from others, I give others the power to make me happy or sad.

It never was about the other.

It was always about my opportunity to love myself more.

The next time my mind wants to loop around about how unfair I was treated…

I will gently remind myself that experience was important to bring me back to myself.

There’s nothing wrong.

Everything is in process as it’s meant to be.

Everything’s always working in my favor.

I choose forgiveness.

I choose gratitude.

I choose freedom. ❤️

To Be A Rebel

By Cory Roussel

A revolutionary is part of the political world; his approach is through politics.

His understanding is that changing the social structure is enough to change the human being.

A rebel, is a spiritual phenomenon. His approach is absolutely individual.

His vision is that if we want to change the society, we have to change the individual.

Society in itself does not exist; it is only a word, like “crowd” – if you go to find it, you will not find it anywhere.

Wherever you encounter someone, you will encounter an individual.

“Society” is only a collective name – just a name, not a reality – with no substance.

The individual has a soul, has a possibility of evolution, of change, of transformation. Hence, the difference is tremendous.

The rebel is the very essence of spirit.

He brings into the world a change of consciousness – and if the consciousness changes, then the structure of the society is bound to follow it.

But vice versa is not the case, and it has been proved by all the revolutions because they have failed.

No revolution has yet succeeded in changing human beings; but it seems we are not aware of the fact.

We still go on thinking in terms of revolution, of changing society, of changing the government, of changing the bureaucracy, of changing laws, political systems.

Feudalism, capitalism, communism, socialism, fascism – they were all in their own way revolutionary.

They all have failed, and failed utterly, because man has remained the same.

We have to be rebels, not revolutionaries.

The revolutionary belongs to a very mundane sphere; the rebel and his rebelliousness are sacred.

The revolutionary cannot stand alone; he needs a crowd, a political party, a government.

He needs power – and power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.

Human consciousness has not grown for centuries. Only once in a while someone blossoms – but in millions of people, the blossoming of one person is not a rule, it is the exception.

And because that person is alone, the crowd cannot tolerate him.

His existence becomes a kind of humiliation; his very presence feels insulting because he opens your eyes, makes you aware of your potential and your future.

And it hurts your ego that you have done nothing to grow, to be more conscious, to be more loving, more ecstatic, more creative, more silent – to create a beautiful world around you.

Hence a Gautama Buddha or a Chuang Tzu hurts you because they have blossomed and you are just standing there.

The world has known only very few rebels.

But now is the time: if humanity proves incapable of producing a large number of rebels, a rebellious spirit, then our days on the earth are numbered.

Then the coming decades may become our graveyard. We are coming very close to that point.

We have to change our consciousness, create more meditative energy in the world, create more lovingness.

We have to destroy the old – its ugliness, its rotten ideologies, its stupid discriminations, idiotic superstitions – and create a new human being with fresh eyes, with new values.

A discontinuity with the past – that’s the meaning of rebelliousness.

These three words will help you to understand: reform, revolution, and rebellion.

Reform means a modification.

The old remains and you give it a new form, a new shape – it is a kind of renovation to an old building.

The original structure remains; you whitewash it, you clean it, you create a few windows, a few new doors.

Revolution goes deeper than reform.

The old remains, but more changes are introduced, changes even in its basic structure.

You are not only changing its color and opening a few new windows and doors, but perhaps building new stories, taking it higher into the sky.

But the old is not destroyed, it remains hidden behind the new; in fact, it remains the very foundation of the new.

Revolution is a continuity with the old.

Rebellion is a discontinuity.

It is not reform, it is not revolution; it is simply disconnecting yourself from all that is old.

The old religions, the old political ideologies, the old human being – all that is old, you disconnect yourself from it.

You start life afresh, from scratch.


The revolutionary tries to change the old; the rebel simply comes out of the old, just as a snake slips out of the old skin and never looks back.

The future needs no more revolutions.

The future needs a new experiment, which has not been tried yet.

Although for thousands of years there have been rebels, they remained alone – individuals.

Perhaps the time was not ripe for them.

But now the time is not only ripe….if you don’t hurry, the time will come to an end.

In the coming decades, either mankind will disappear or a new human being with a new vision will appear on the earth.

That new human being will be a rebel.

The difference between a revolutionary and a rebel.

To be a rebel we need to stand alone – yet together in this aloneness.

So easily, with all the expectations raised by so much info coming out – and talk of what is about to happen – we can sit and wait for someone else to do it for us, when this attitude itself is what has got us into this mess – giving our power away to governments, conditioning, status quo, the easy option, the safe option, not rocking the boat, etc.

Individuals have to take courage and speak up for themselves if we are to see this world change on a sustainable basis.

It’s just a cautionary point at this time of great expectations. 💖

Never Enough

I’ve been giving so much PRESENCE to this part of me that feels that it’s not enough.

I’m noticing that in the past, the way that I would work with this feeling of not being enough...

Is by trying to DO more so that I could BE more.

My mind was constantly trying to figure it out and control the situation, so that I don’t feel this part of me that feels not enough.

The funny thing about trying to do more to be more is...

It’s never enough!

No matter how much money I make...

No matter how many people respond to my posts...

No matter how many clients I have...

No matter how many experiences I have...

It’s never enough!

OMG! This mental struggling is so exhausting!

Ahhhh! Relax. Breathe. Rest...

I gently and kindly say to my mind...

Then I proceed to start something different.

We’re going to do nothing for a while...

I kindly inform myself.

We’re going to just sit on my sparkly butt and make the magic that I AM happen. 🤪

And in the process, we’re gonna love the hell out of the part of us that feels not enough.

It’s so simple!

And it’s more fun this way! 💖

I Desire…

An inherently natural part of being human is to feel separate from what we need and want, to feel separate from Love.

Not only is there nothing wrong with that part of us…

It is what we came to experience.

Every single one of us is constantly trying to figure out a way to feel better, a way to meet our desires.

But what happens when our desires lead us into trouble?

We do one of two things...

We indulge ourselves in those desires, sometimes to excess...

Or we block those desires.

There’s nothing wrong with our desires or how we deal with them.

This human experience is an exploration, and it’s important we explore every aspect of what we are evolving.

Because the Buddha said that desire leads to suffering...

There are those who try to block their desires, to become desire-less.

But desiring not to have desires is still desiring.

WTF?! What are we desirous humans to do?

Relax! All is well.

I invite you to try something new with your desires...

Close your eyes and breathe.

And go straight into your desires.

Feel the wanting, the yearning, the real sensation of not having what you want.

Embrace that human part of you...

Even and especially if what you’re wanting is not good for you.

That part of you that desires is asking to feel One again because it feels separate from what it wants.

And the cool thing is that you and me are connected together with all that is...

So not only are we able to embrace the desirous human part of us...

But we can give ourselves what we wanted from outside of ourselves.

Because although it looks like we want something or someone outside of ourselves...

What we’re really wanting is more of our own presence.

After we’ve embraced that part of us that feels so separate from what it desires...

We can make a conscious choice to either give ourselves that in the physical realm...

Or just enjoy this moment exactly as it is without having to have anything more.

Both options coming from the Love that we are.

Either way we experience our Oneness and enjoy being fully human and fully Divine. 💖