I Desire…

An inherently natural part of being human is to feel separate from what we need and want, to feel separate from Love.

Not only is there nothing wrong with that part of us…

It is what we came to experience.

Every single one of us is constantly trying to figure out a way to feel better, a way to meet our desires.

But what happens when our desires lead us into trouble?

We do one of two things...

We indulge ourselves in those desires, sometimes to excess...

Or we block those desires.

There’s nothing wrong with our desires or how we deal with them.

This human experience is an exploration, and it’s important we explore every aspect of what we are evolving.

Because the Buddha said that desire leads to suffering...

There are those who try to block their desires, to become desire-less.

But desiring not to have desires is still desiring.

WTF?! What are we desirous humans to do?

Relax! All is well.

I invite you to try something new with your desires...

Close your eyes and breathe.

And go straight into your desires.

Feel the wanting, the yearning, the real sensation of not having what you want.

Embrace that human part of you...

Even and especially if what you’re wanting is not good for you.

That part of you that desires is asking to feel One again because it feels separate from what it wants.

And the cool thing is that you and me are connected together with all that is...

So not only are we able to embrace the desirous human part of us...

But we can give ourselves what we wanted from outside of ourselves.

Because although it looks like we want something or someone outside of ourselves...

What we’re really wanting is more of our own presence.

After we’ve embraced that part of us that feels so separate from what it desires...

We can make a conscious choice to either give ourselves that in the physical realm...

Or just enjoy this moment exactly as it is without having to have anything more.

Both options coming from the Love that we are.

Either way we experience our Oneness and enjoy being fully human and fully Divine. 💖

Are You a Courageous Badass Who Won’t Let Anything Stop You From Living Out Your Purpose?

Are you a courageous badass who won’t let anything stop you from living out your purpose?

Because that’s what it’s gonna take to do what you came here to do. 

I get it that you’re stuck and afraid. 

Hell, most people are!

But if you want to succeed in life…

You have to be willing to go against the flow and to let go of the old stories of what your life should look like. 

You’re not a robot. 

You’re not a machine. 

You can choose at any moment to stop following the script…

You know the one that everybody else wrote for you…

That you make sure and try to follow so people will love you, and you will get what you need and want. 

I have bad news. 

That is not going to fulfill you. 

So you’re busting your butt trying to please everybody and do everything right for nothing. 

Meanwhile, the world needs you to show up unapologetically in all of your splendor. 

This means it’s time to let go of what you thought your life should look like…

That job that’s sucking the life out of you…

That relationship that is no longer serving you…

You know what I’m talking about. 

You’ve stayed because you’re afraid. 

It’s time to take care of that part of you that feels afraid by showing up for yourself. 

I invite you to tell that part of you that’s terrified to make the changes that you know in your heart are necessary for you to move forward…

“I love you, and I’m going to take care of you.”

I AM a courageous badass. 

I wasn’t always this way. 

Most of my life I was a scared little girl trying to manage and control everything. 

But one day I woke up and realized I had special work to do here to create a new way of being based on unconditional love…

Which was going to require a lot of courage. 

One of the biggest things that I chose to do was to leave a 35-year marriage and to embark on an entirely new life…

Doing what I came here to do and supporting myself despite the fact that I have never supported myself in my entire life! 

Girlfriends, I have NEVER REGRETTED any decision I have ever made! 

And there were some tough things asked of me…

I did not shrink. 

I chose to face my fears, allow and open to who I AM. 

That generated a lot of courage in me. 

I trust myself. 

And I’ve created the most amazing life bringing women through powerful transformations and changing the world. 

If you’re sick of living a life that you do not enjoy, and…

You’re ready to start flowing in your purpose, and...

To make some bold moves.

I’m willing to talk to you about how to make that happen. 

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Looking forward to connecting with you!

I love you so much!

Are You Afraid to Fail?

“The fear of failure as a feeling inside your physical body is intimately linked with money.”

- Gene Key 32 by Richard Rudd

The idea of money, having enough and getting enough...

Is tied to your safety and worthiness.

This fear of failure indirectly translates into your relationships...

Because it has to do with feeling safe and secure.

So you may tend to be attracted to people with whom you can feel safe and financially secure.

Then scarcity mentality can come into play in the relationship...

Which is the energy of “I don’t have enough”...

That comes from “I am not enough”...

Because one or both parties devalue the other by being stingy.

By the way, scarcity mentality does not have anything to do with reality of whether or not you have money.

When scarcity mentality is at play, you are unable to value yourself and others in a free and open way.

Money is just the front story.

It’s more about feeling safe and worthy.

So if you’re worried about money...

The human part of you that feels unsafe and unworthy wants to be loved!

If you keep trying to manage your fear with your mind...

And to figure out how you’re going to get more money and feel more safe...

You will never give your love and attention to the parts of you that want to be loved...

Which is how you break the cycle and open to your infinite worthiness and safety.

If you’re struggling with a failed relationship, and you want to discover how to get support in your process of exiting the relationship gracefully…

I’m willing to talk to you about it.

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Looking forward to connecting with you!

How Much Longer Can You Take Being Miserable in That Relationship?

Do want to do the right thing and be a good person…

But you’re miserable in your relationship, and you have no idea how to deal with that?

I understand. 

I was married for 35 years before I finally decided to leave. 

It was a beautiful marriage, and we had the most amazing experience together…

But we weren’t meant to be together till death do us part. 

And each year I became increasingly lonely and unhappy in the relationship, without even realizing how lonely and unhappy I was. 

There was nothing wrong with him or us. 

It’s just that I kept expanding into a different version of who I was when I met him 35 years earlier. 

And though he tried to meet me where I was, he simply couldn’t. 

One day he finally asked me for a separation. 

I didn’t see that coming. 

I thought that sooner or later he was going to come around and meet me where I was. 

But then I realized that my idea of how it should look was not in our best interest. 

I surrendered my ideas of what I thought my life should look like…

So I could open to what was going to better serve me and our world at this time. 

It was an incredible time of shifting and change and feelings.

And it took a lot of courage to walk away and to forge an entirely new way of being. 

What about you?

How long have you been in a relationship that you know has run its course?

How long have you put up with feeling unhappy and unfulfilled in your relationship, no matter how hard you try to change that?

When it gets uncomfortable enough…

And you’re ready to make a move out of the relationship…

In a graceful and loving way…

You CAN have a GRACEFUL RELATIONSHIP EXIT like I did and like my clients had.

I’ve prepared something for you to help you get started on this process.

And it’s FREE!

So what have you got to lose?

The GRACEFUL RELATIONSHIP EXIT PLAN can change the course of your life...

Click on the link below to learn more about how you can GRACEFULLY and LOVINGLY exit your relationship.

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