Four Myths About Relationships

Relationships are soooo tricky!

They can be AMAZING!!!!

They can be dull and static. 😞

They can be downright PAINFUL!

Whatever the case, they bring a richness to the fabric of life.

I want to share four myths about relationships with you…

Myth #1 There’s only one person for me, and when I find him, I must hold on tight.

There is some truth to this statement…

But allow me to share more insight to help you understand how to avoid a pitfall.

Consider the possibility that there’s only one person for you at any given time in your life to help you learn things about yourself and about life.

This reframe gives you the option to gracefully exit a relationship that is no longer serving you…

Instead of trying to force a relationship to continue when it’s clear that the relationship is over.

Myth #2 It’s my job to do whatever it takes to save the relationship, even if it means I have to give up what feels right for me.

Let’s look at WHY you would want to stay in the relationship, even if you are being asked to give up what feels right for you.

Is it because you would feel guilty if you didn’t?

Is it because you can’t imagine what it would be like not to have his love and approval?

Is it because you don’t feel able to support yourself?

Is it because he has convinced you that if you love him, you would put up with ANYTHING?

My friend, if you answered yes to any of these questions…

Your motivation for staying in the relationship is not coming from Love.

It’s coming from FEAR!

And it’s not going to go well for you if you continue this way.

Myth #3 The right thing to do is to forgive and forget.

Forgiveness is absolutely important to freeing yourself.

But forgiveness doesn’t mean that you continue allowing the same patterns of neglect, abuse, mistreatment to continue.

In fact, it is your responsibility to provide safety and love to YOURSELF first.

If you keep allowing someone else to mistreat you…

At the expense of your own wellbeing…

That is not Love at all.

That is coming from your fear of not getting his Love…

Because you’re convinced he is more important than your own safety and wellbeing.

You are abandoning yourself, my friend.

#4 It’s better to stay together for the kids’ wellbeing.

Really?

Do you think your kids don’t know and FEEL what’s going on between you?

The tension, conflict, apathy, anger…

Is very obvious to them.

Do you think it’s best for them to be in that environment?

What if YOUR FEAR of what would happen if you exited the relationship…

Is what’s keeping you from making a healthy choice for you and your kids?

What if you could exit the relationship gracefully and lovingly without trauma and drama…

And create a safe and thriving home for your kids?

That is entirely possible and exactly my specialty!

I’d be happy to talk to you about how you can do that on a FREE CALL.

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Don’t believe the myths that have kept you miserable.

Start creating the life you love today!

Looking forward to connecting with you!

I love you so much!

Are You Listening to Your Body?

Are you listening to your body?

Because it knows…

Your body is extremely intelligent.

It’s genetically wired to guide you and bring you through your evolutionary process. 

The issue is that the mind fights the body, often sabotaging it, creating a lot of suffering. 

What is your body telling you?

Is it asking you to slow down and rest?

Is it telling you that it’s stressed and needs space to regenerate...alone?

Is it showing you that aspects of your life that once served you…

Are no longer serving you…

Like a job, a living situation, a relationship?

You get to decide if you want to listen to your body…

Or continue to push it, force it, punish it, ignore it, fight it. 

Either way you will learn and grow, but the latter is going to be harder and cause you more pain. 

Listening to the intelligence of your body requires courage and compassion for yourself. 

You must be willing to let go of the old to make way from something new in order to expand into the next higher version of yourself. 

Otherwise you stay stuck in relationships and jobs that stagnate and suck the life out of you. 

If you don’t listen to your body…

It will just get louder and louder…

Creating more painful situations…

Until you DO listen. 

So, what do you say?

Have you the courage and compassion to start listening to what your body’s telling you today?

I’d love to hop on a free call with you to see how I can support you in your process of expanding into the next higher version of yourself. 

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Here’s your chance to expand into your best life.

Looking forward to connecting with you!

I love you so much!

The Secret to Tap Into Your Super Powers...And It’s Soooo Freakin Simple!!!!

Hey Y’All...

Are you tired of...

Trying so hard to get things done...

Trying to feel better...

Stressing out about all your problems...

Which never seem to go away?

Because as soon as you put out one fire...

Another one pops up!

Phew! It’s exhausting and disappointing to be human.

My friends, I’ll tell you a little secret...

It looks like you are a mere human...

But inside of that human is your true nature...

Which is Divine and limitless.

This means that you don’t have to try so hard.

All that you need is to access your super powers.

And this is how...

You exert your Divine WILL by CHOOSING!

Notice I said your Divine will, not your human willpower...

Which is very limited.

Here’s the thing...

You’re used to trying to drum up your human willpower which involves feelings that are hard to overcome.

This is not about how you feel or your strength.

You simply make a choice.

Yes or no.

Once you make the choice to move in the direction of love, of joy, of peace, of your health...

The strength and the feelings follow.

And every time you say yes to love, yes to forgiveness, yes to facing your fears...

You garner more COURAGE and ability to create and expand and grow.

Yay! It’s that easy!

Now go out, you Brave Ones and choose love in this moment. 💖

How Do You Want To Be Remembered?

Sometimes you can get so caught up in life...

That you lose yourself and why came here. 

This can especially be true in relationships.

You spend all of your energy trying to please the other to get his love and attention...

That you forget what it is that YOU want in life...

And how you want to be remembered for your contribution here. 

Do you want to be remembered as someone who was afraid, anxious and unfulfilled...

Because you didn’t know how to get untangled from a relationship that’s slowly sucking the life out of you?

And the only reason why you’re staying in the relationship is because you’re afraid of leaving? 

Here’s what your epitaph would say...

She was remembered for her great FEAR of doing what she knew in her heart was her true purpose...

Because she couldn’t trust herself...

So she kept putting other people’s needs and wants before her own. 

She was a remarkable victim and martyr. 

Nooooo!!!!!

I know you don’t want that!

This is what you want said about you...

She had incredible courage to live her life with purpose and love...

Even when it meant going against what everyone else thought was best for her...

Because she trusted herself, and she knew why she came. 

She changed the world by first loving herself unconditionally...

And by living out her highest truest version of herself. 

The world is a better place because she came. 

If that’s what you want said about you...

But you’re stuck in a relationship that’s no longer working and is not salvageable...

Let’s hop on a free call and talk about how to make a graceful and loving exit...

So you can expand into the Highest version of yourself...

And do what you came here to do.

 Click on the link below to book your FREE CALL:

❤️ CallWithDenise.com ❤️

It’s time to show up for yourself. 

Looking forward to connecting with you!

I love you so much! 💖