The Woman Who Walked With Tigers and Not Only Survived But Thrived

Does life feel like you’re surrounded by hungry tigers and you’re spending all your time just trying to survive?

That’s how I felt for a good part of my life. The hungry tigers were the people in my life who were wanting a piece of me. It was my job to keep them happy. 

I had to do what these people in my life wanted because I felt if I didn’t then they wouldn’t love me, they wouldn’t approve of me. And I wouldn’t be a good wife and a good mother because everyone knows that we must put everyone before ourselves. NOT!

That’s a lie. Other people’s happiness is not my responsibility, and it’s not yours. It’s not your job to keep your partner happy, even though he thinks that, and you want him to be happy. 

Let’s look at this. Why do we feel it’s our responsibility to make another person happy at our own expense? Well, it’s because there’s a part of us that craves being loved. 

That part of us is the part of us that feels unloved, unworthy, unwanted. We are trained and conditioned to avoid those feelings at all costs. 

So we put up with a lot of crap so we can feel loved, worthy and wanted. But we wind up actually being treated disrespectfully, not being valued, not being spoken to, not being appreciated, not being touched, and forget about sex, not being allowed to express ourselves, blah blah blah. 

Is that what’s happening to you? 

When I realized the hungry tigers were keeping me in survival mode, I decided to shift all of that. 

I decided to start healing the parts of me that felt unloved, unworthy and unwanted. And I learned how to do that very well. I also learned how to teach other people how to do that. 

From this new an expanded place, I learned how to shift the way I interact with others, so that I am not spending my time trying to get the approval and love of someone who doesn’t  love themselves. How can they give me what they haven’t been able to give to themselves? 

I learned how to give myself the love that I desperately tried to get from the other. That’s when I really started thriving. 

I freed myself from that vicious loop of constantly trying to meet other people’s demands and keep them happy. I took back my power. I took back my freedom. I learned how to generate my own happiness and to allow others to do the same. 

It’s amazing!

Maybe you’re like I was. Stuck in life, suffering from putting everyone else before you, and them totally not giving you what you need and want, especially not your partner. 

And you’re tired...so tired because no matter what you do it’s never enough. 

And all you want is to be loved exactly as you are, to be seen, felt and heard, and you have no idea how to make that happen. 

Ladies, let me help you with that. Send me a DM so we can set up a free call to get clear on the challenges you’re facing and what you would really like to create in your life. 

The call is completely free. If you want to discuss how we may be able to work together, you may request that at the end of the call.

These calls can be very transformational in ways you cannot have imagined. You won’t want to miss this chance to start shifting your life around. You don’t have to keep putting up with all that crap. 

I look forward to connecting with you and learning about what’s going on in your world. 

You are important. You matter. And I love you so much! ❤️ 

Who’s In Charge of Our World?

The 1%! 

Who can actually make a difference and create a new healthy harmonious world?

The spiritual leaders! 

Wait...why aren’t the spiritual leaders in charge?

Because they have the notion that money isn’t important. They give away their stuff for free or charge very little because they believe that money is the reason why we have so many problems. 

Let’s think about this...who benefits from this kind of thinking? Well, the people with money do!

Now they have CONTROL over the people who actually can heal our world by allowing them to believe that their services should be free or cheap, leaving the healers to often struggle financially to make ends meet and are certainly not in the position to fund global change. 

What a clever ploy to keep us small!

By the way, do you know where “I don’t have enough” comes from?

It comes from “I am not enough,” which is our unworthiness, otherwise known as lack of value. 

My friends, that’s exactly what wants to be healed! 

We don’t value what we don’t pay for. So then we don’t experience healing or transformation, and the spiritual healer doesn’t experience abundance. Both parties lose. 

If we expect to heal ourselves and to flow in our abundant value so that we can change the world, we must be able to address scarcity mindset and heal our deep unworthiness. 

How do we do that?

We do that by creating value. 

What that looks like is that we begin investing in ourselves and giving other people the opportunity to invest in themselves in balanced energetic exchanges. 

It’s a simple exchange. Money for healing. It’s no different than buying a car or groceries. If there is a significant transformation to be made, then the energy exchange must be significant. 

When we begin to invest in ourselves and give other people the opportunity to invest in themselves, we create value and we all start transforming, healing and flowing in abundance. 

This is what it’s going to take to heal our world and turn this situation around. We must change our mindset and create value. 

Our world needs us to show up at this time like it’s never needed us before. 

Let’s change the world by valuing ourselves and others. I love you so much. ❤️🌍🦋

To All the People in my Life Who Have Mistreated Me:

Thank you!

Thank you for disrespecting me and not valuing me. Because of you I have discovered my limitless value.

Thank you for trying to control me and make me do whatever you wanted from me. Because of you I have gotten in touch with my unlimited power.

Thank you for suppressing me and not allowing me to express myself. Because of you I have found my most authentic truth and have learned how to express it.

Thank you for ignoring me and neglecting me. Because of you I know who I AM.

Thank you for intimidating me and being passive aggressive. Because of you I have become so courageous.

And about any further mistreatment, disrespect, suppression, neglect, and intimidation...NO, thank you.

You’ve taught me enough. Now it’s time for me to attract people who truly value me, who cherish me, who see me and listen to me and treat me with compassion and unconditional love.

I forgive you. I respect you and your journey. And I wish you the best in your life.

Detachment and Desires

On the surface level, it looks like these two concepts don’t mix. But I’m seeing a different perspective. 

What is detachment, and why is it important? Detachment is the opposite of attachment, which is a human tendency to try to hold onto things because we feel separate from what we need and want. 

The strange thing is that when we’re able to detach, then we position ourselves to receive. 

Some philosophies teach us that desires are wrong, and that our goal is to be desireless. I have a different take on that. That idea is a partial understanding. 

Attachments lead to suffering because it keeps us in our limited human nature, which feels separate from what we need and want. 

When we are able to let go of our attachments to what we want, then we position ourselves to operate from our Divine limitless nature, which is connected to everything and everyone and is all that is. 

So long as we are stuck in our limited human way that is entrenched in the illusion of separation, we can’t effectively navigate this reality and manifest healing, peace, love, abundance. Whatever we do manifest, comes from trying really hard and suffering a lot. 

We are spirit beings that came here in human bodies to evolve human consciousness. If there was no purpose to be human, we wouldn’t be here. 

Many people ascribe to be spiritual and forget their human nature. That is not a skillful way to evolve human consciousness. 

The goal is to align our human nature with our Divine nature. And this is how we do it: first, we identify as our truest Highest Selves as pure LOVE in the human body, Source in skin, God in costume. 

This is where the detachment comes in. We realize that we are not separate from what we need and want or from anything or anyone and we let go of that limiting belief, so that we can free ourselves to be who we truly are, Divine limitless beings. 

From that space we use our desires as a GPS to show us 1) What in us wants our love and attention, and 2) What we can skillfully create for the Greater Good in our lives and in our world, realizing that whatever we do in our lives is done in the entire collective because we are One. 

In fact, we must first embody whatever it is we’re creating in the world. 

This idea that spiritual people must be poor and live with very little doesn’t come from our Highest Self. It comes from the spiritual ego that feels separate from what we need and want and tries to make us look spiritual and detached from this human life. The idea that spiritual people must live poor and simply actually comes from scarcity mentality, not from who we truly are. 

Our Highest Self just sits back and laughs at all of our human attempts to try to reach who we are. Our truest nature doesn’t try to do or be anything because it knows that we already are all that is. Desiring to be desireless  is a desire. I invite you to let that go. 

I invite you to see yourself as LOVE and Light in a human body sent here to evolve your unique aspect of humanity as your gift and contribution to all of us. 

I invite you to let go of your attachment to the idea that you are merely human and separate from what you need and want. 

I invite you to begin creating from your limitless nature and to use your pure desires to create the most astounding new earth that we could possibly ever imagine. 

I invite you to begin with your own life because that’s the way we do it. ❤️🌍🦋