Relationships are tricky things!
Just when we think we have it all figured out...
Things change! And we try so hard to get it right...
Whew! It can be exhausting!
Let’s talk about why we have trouble getting what we want out of our relationships.
Why is it so hard to find and establish a meaningful and lasting relationship?
Relationships with others can only go as far as our relationship with ourselves.
Let’s get more specific...
The reason we don’t experience what we want in terms of relationships is because…
There’s something BLOCKING what’s possible.
What is that?! you ask.
It’s our pesky limiting beliefs!
Let’s look a little closer because the thing about limiting beliefs is that we don’t realize they are there!
Let’s take the case of simply not finding anyone that interests us or more likely that’s interested in us.
If we examine ourselves really carefully, hiding underneath a bunch of protective layers are a bunch of limiting beliefs.
Here’s an example of what those look like:
“I’m not that attractive. That’s why I can’t find anyone.”
“If they really knew my deepest thoughts, they wouldn’t like me... hell, I’m not so sure I like me!”
“If I fall for this person, they’re gonna break my heart, just like so and so did.”
“I hate being rejected, so I will just reject them before they reject me!”
“There’s no one who is at my level, and I’m not willing to settle.”
“It’s just easier being alone without all that drama and trauma.”
“I find women/men to be troublesome and difficult to be with.”
Lordy! I could go on for days!
The funny thing is that we keep projecting our ideas out there where all those potential people are that we want to be in relationship with.
And we don’t realize we attract the energy we vibrate... even if we don’t want to!
Energy doesn’t lie!
If we have these subconscious limiting beliefs, (and we all do to some extent), they will block us from experiencing what’s possible.
How do we get rid of the limiting beliefs? you ask.
Well, the first step is to be AWARE of what they are.
The next step is to DISSOLVE them, and when we do…
We EXPAND into greater possibilities, so we can bring our truest desires into reality.
That’s sounds simple, and it actually is fairly simple…
But it’s a PROCESS to learn how to be aware of and dissolve our limiting beliefs.
And the way we generally try to do that is usually the exact opposite of the way that works!
You know... all that efforting...
Trying to just think positive...
Focusing on what you want while ignoring and distracting yourself from your negative thoughts...
Arguing with your negative beliefs about yourself...
Pushing them far away from yourself and denying they exist...
You get the idea!
The way to dissolve the limiting beliefs is to love and accept them as they arise.
Truth is, even though we might UNDERSTAND that being present with love and acceptance of our fears and limiting beliefs is the way to heal…
Being able to actually DO that is very hard, if you’ve never done it before...
Which you haven’t because you’re reading this about how to do it!
Anyway, The most skillful way to go about healing yourself is to call in an expert…
One that’s already done what you want to do and knows how to teach others to do the same.
That’s exactly what I’m doing for my clients!
So if you’re ready to dissolve your limiting beliefs and to attract the most amazing relationship into your life...
I’m offering you a free call to start creating the love life you’ve always wanted.
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