Booo...hissss...Nobody likes a bully. Pushing people around. Trying to push, control, take by force. Sometimes it’s in very overt shows of violence and anger. Sometimes it’s in cunning more subtle ways. Either way it’s mean.
Why does the bully bully? Because he/she feels separate from what he needs and wants...separate from love..separate from being wanted...separate from feeling worthy. And he chooses to take it by force or manipulation from others.
Here’s a surprise...Do you know who the biggest bully is?...our own Self! Nah! you say...Well, let’s look at this: who is the one who is constantly trying to whip you into shape? Tell you that you didn’t do it right, AGAIN? Tell you you’re not smart enough, pretty enough, talented enough? Tell you the reason you don’t have the things you want is because you’re lazy, and why don’t just get up and go to the gym? Nobody likes flab, and you have lots of it. As a matter of fact, that’s why people aren’t attracted to you. If you would just work harder, you could get what you want, but NO...you wimped out again and took the easy route...
It’s mean and relentless. The bully is our own EGO, trying to keep itself alive. What’s a person to do about the bully? Should we fight the bully? Should we just acquiesce to him, hoping sooner or later he will be appeased and stop bullying? Nope... that’s not gonna work.
The only way to stop the bully from bullying is to love and accept him/her. That’s how you heal and transform the bully into LOVE. Well, HOW do we do that? you ask.
It’s a process that requires a strategy, tools and most importantly GUIDANCE. That’s exactly what I’m doing for my clients. So if you’re tired of the bully, and you’re ready to reclaim your power, then send me a PM HERE to book a call, so that we can see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I am getting my clients.
You are IMPORTANT! You matter. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be loved. ❤️
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