That’s a ridiculous question! you say, of course it is!... oh, really?... Let’s take a look at what you really value... But to do that, we must first look at the big picture... I will need to ask you some questions first...
How long have you been suffering from anxiety and sadness? Has it affected your relationships? Your job performance? Your physical health? Your ability to sleep? Are you in a state of constant conflict, drama and trauma with another? Or are you isolated and alone, and it’s so lonely?
Now... what have you done to heal yourself?... and how much have you INVESTED in your healing?... hmmm... Come to think of it, little or nothing, you say... Why is that? Are you not important enough to be healed? Do you value yourself? Do you value your health? Do you value your happiness? Because your actions speak louder than your words...
Let’s look at a hypothetical story... Suppose you had a child that got into an accident...They were hit by a car while riding their bicycle. And suppose you didn’t have insurance or a way to pay for hospital bills, so you flatly refused to allow your child to go to the hospital to tend to her/his concussion, fractures and gaping wounds... Instead, you told the child, it’s okay... I’ll fix you up the best I can when we get home... Do you think that is in the best interest of your child?... NO! It isn’t... and if the child survives the physical injuries, they’re sure to suffer the psychological repercussions for the rest of their life because their parent put money and the lack of it before their health and wellbeing.
We do the exact same thing when we refuse to invest in our healing! We are saying to ourselves, You are not important enough to get the proper care from an expert. I don’t value you enough to invest in your wellbeing... When that happens, we are putting money or the lack of it before our healing, which for many of you is not just a matter of feeling better, but is literally a life or death situation!
My friends, stop waiting for someone to rescue you from your powerlessness. It’s time for YOU to reclaim your power by showing up for yourself. It’s time for you to be your own hero. You do this by valuing yourself and loving yourself enough to making your healing your #1 priority by not letting anything get in the way of your healing, certainly not money or the lack of it. That’s when it’s time to get reSOURCEful. And that’s when the Universe responds because you mean business.
When you go around expecting people to invest their time, money and energy in your healing, for free or almost free, you’re basically saying, I don’t value myself enough to pay an expert well to heal myself, AND I don’t value the expert enough to pay them for their offering... Can you see that all this situation does is KEEP you POWERLESS! If I were to say to you, I’m going to spend my time, money and energy in you for your healing because you are powerless to do anything for yourself, so I will do it for you... can you see that not only does that keep you as a powerless victim, but it develops an unhealthy co-dependent cycle?
This is exactly why social services have failed. I’m not helping you by telling you that you are unable to help yourself, so I have to do it for you. Instead, I’m giving you the opportunity to reclaim your power and start actually healing yourself so you can enjoy your life and sustain your healing.
I believe in you. I see you in your most empowered state. And I know how to bring that out of you. You have to believe in yourself FIRST though, if you expect to be healed. So if you’re sick and tired of being a powerless victim of anxiety and sadness, and you value and love yourself enough to invest in your healing, send me a PM HERE to book a call about working together. It’s time for you to start enjoying your life! ❤️