Four Myths About Relationships

Relationships are soooo tricky!

They can be AMAZING!!!!

They can be dull and static. 😞

They can be downright PAINFUL!

Whatever the case, they bring a richness to the fabric of life.

I want to share four myths about relationships with you…

Myth #1 There’s only one person for me, and when I find him, I must hold on tight.

There is some truth to this statement…

But allow me to share more insight to help you understand how to avoid a pitfall.

Consider the possibility that there’s only one person for you at any given time in your life to help you learn things about yourself and about life.

This reframe gives you the option to gracefully exit a relationship that is no longer serving you…

Instead of trying to force a relationship to continue when it’s clear that the relationship is over.

Myth #2 It’s my job to do whatever it takes to save the relationship, even if it means I have to give up what feels right for me.

Let’s look at WHY you would want to stay in the relationship, even if you are being asked to give up what feels right for you.

Is it because you would feel guilty if you didn’t?

Is it because you can’t imagine what it would be like not to have his love and approval?

Is it because you don’t feel able to support yourself?

Is it because he has convinced you that if you love him, you would put up with ANYTHING?

My friend, if you answered yes to any of these questions…

Your motivation for staying in the relationship is not coming from Love.

It’s coming from FEAR!

And it’s not going to go well for you if you continue this way.

Myth #3 The right thing to do is to forgive and forget.

Forgiveness is absolutely important to freeing yourself.

But forgiveness doesn’t mean that you continue allowing the same patterns of neglect, abuse, mistreatment to continue.

In fact, it is your responsibility to provide safety and love to YOURSELF first.

If you keep allowing someone else to mistreat you…

At the expense of your own wellbeing…

That is not Love at all.

That is coming from your fear of not getting his Love…

Because you’re convinced he is more important than your own safety and wellbeing.

You are abandoning yourself, my friend.

#4 It’s better to stay together for the kids’ wellbeing.

Really?

Do you think your kids don’t know and FEEL what’s going on between you?

The tension, conflict, apathy, anger…

Is very obvious to them.

Do you think it’s best for them to be in that environment?

What if YOUR FEAR of what would happen if you exited the relationship…

Is what’s keeping you from making a healthy choice for you and your kids?

What if you could exit the relationship gracefully and lovingly without trauma and drama…

And create a safe and thriving home for your kids?

That is entirely possible and exactly my specialty!

I’d be happy to talk to you about how you can do that on a FREE CALL.

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Don’t believe the myths that have kept you miserable.

Start creating the life you love today!

Looking forward to connecting with you!

I love you so much!